Madi was estranged from her father for 20 years due to parental alienation. As a child, she was caught in the emotional crossfire—coerced into believing her father was dangerous and unloving. Years later, as an adult, Madi reconnected with him and unraveled the painful truth: she had been manipulated.
She is now a vocal advocate for children affected by parental alienation. I discovered her - “The Anti-Alienation Project” YouTube videos late one sleepless night. She shares openly and honestly how this alienation affected her as a child, as well as the struggles she still has. One day, I know these videos will help in my granddaughter's healing and in coming to terms with what she has unfortunately experienced.
My Dear Hailey Grace,
Today, I am writing you a special letter, a letter from my heart to yours. A letter that breaks my heart to have to write. A letter that will try to explain to you, how and why we are being kept apart. It is important for you to know – that none of this is your fault.
Lately, we haven't been able to be together like we used to, and I want you to know something really important: it wasn't because we didn't want to be with you. We are trying very hard to stay close and be a part of your life. Sometimes grown-ups don't agree on things, and it can make families feel far apart. We will never stop loving you or fighting to see you as often as we are allowed. Hailey, you are such a big, bright part of our hearts. We miss you every day. We miss your smile, your laugh, your excitement and joy. Please know that even when we are not together, I never stop thinking about you. I will never stop hoping, and I will never stop loving you and wanting the very best for you. We are holding onto our love for you, it is our light in this terrible darkness. A sadness has entered all of our lives, we need you, we want you, we miss you, we love you so so so much.
This year our traditional week in Florida didn't happen. I am so sorry for that. Our memories of swimming before breakfast, seeing dolphins, finding seashells and shark teeth. I pray we will one day be able to have that again. I am dreading the summer, no longer will you be coming to work with me. Your river rock is still here, waiting patiently for you to sit on it. You are part of our family, always and forever. Nothing can change that. If you ever have questions, we will answer them with honesty and kindness. When you are allowed to talk, we are here with open arms and open hearts. You shouldn't have to chose between the people who love you - there is enough love to go around. I want you to know, its ok to have questions. Its ok to feel all kinds of feelings. Please know, we are here for you – with love, kindness and on your terms.
You are missed. You are loved, forever and always.
Hugs and kisses Hailey Grace,
With all my love,
GrannyGran